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YitzchakSultan1 at 14:07, 29 December 2024

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	# The Ashkenazic custom is to have a bedekin before the chupah because according to some it is considered the marriage.<ref>The Darkei Moshe 66:1 quotes Tosfot Yoma 13b s.v. lechada as holding that a betulah is married when she goes out with her hair covered. Similarly, the Rama 55:1 writes that some say that when the chatan covers his and his kallah’s head during the sheva brachot it is considered the chupah. Nitai Gavriel (Nesiun 13:3) writes that the Ashkenazic minhag nowadays is to do the bedekin before the chupa. [http://www.chabad.org/library/article_cdo/aid/313719/jewish/The-Veiling-Ceremony-Bedeken.htm see The Veiling Ceremony: Bedeken] on Chabad.org for more</ref> Sephardim don’t have this minhag.<ref> Yalkut Yosef (Sovah Semachot 6:2)</ref>		# The Ashkenazic custom is to have a bedekin before the chupah because according to some it is considered the marriage.<ref>The Darkei Moshe 66:1 quotes Tosfot Yoma 13b s.v. lechada as holding that a betulah is married when she goes out with her hair covered. Similarly, the Rama 55:1 writes that some say that when the chatan covers his and his kallah’s head during the sheva brachot it is considered the chupah. Nitai Gavriel (Nesiun 13:3) writes that the Ashkenazic minhag nowadays is to do the bedekin before the chupa. [http://www.chabad.org/library/article_cdo/aid/313719/jewish/The-Veiling-Ceremony-Bedeken.htm see The Veiling Ceremony: Bedeken] on Chabad.org for more</ref> Sephardim don’t have this minhag.<ref> Yalkut Yosef (Sovah Semachot 6:2)</ref>
	# When the Chatan does the bedekin the rabbi and parents bless the kallah "אחותנו את היי לאלפי רבבה."<ref>Shevach Hanesuin p. 37</ref> Some say:<blockquote>אֲחֹתֵנוּ אַתְּ הֲיִי לְאַלְפֵי רְבָבָה ישמך אלקים כשרה רבקה רחל ולאה יְבָרֶכְךָ ה' וְיִשְׁמְרֶךָ. יָאֵר ה' פָּנָיו אֵלֶיךָ וִיחֻנֶּךָּ. יִשָּׂא ה' פָּנָיו אֵלֶיךָ וְיָשֵׂם לְךָ שָׁלוֹם.<ref>RCA Madrich p. 86</ref></blockquote>		# When the Chatan does the bedekin the rabbi and parents bless the kallah "אחותנו את היי לאלפי רבבה."<ref>Shevach Hanesuin p. 37</ref> Some say:<blockquote>אֲחֹתֵנוּ אַתְּ הֲיִי לְאַלְפֵי רְבָבָה ישמך אלקים כשרה רבקה רחל ולאה יְבָרֶכְךָ ה' וְיִשְׁמְרֶךָ. יָאֵר ה' פָּנָיו אֵלֶיךָ וִיחֻנֶּךָּ. יִשָּׂא ה' פָּנָיו אֵלֶיךָ וְיָשֵׂם לְךָ שָׁלוֹם.<ref>RCA Madrich p. 86</ref></blockquote>
			#At a second marriage the bedekin is not done by the chatan but by someone else.<ref>Seder Kiddushin Vnesuin p. 48</ref>

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YitzchakSultan1 at 14:05, 29 December 2024

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	# The Ashkenazic custom is to have a bedekin before the chupah because according to some it is considered the marriage.<ref>The Darkei Moshe 66:1 quotes Tosfot Yoma 13b s.v. lechada as holding that a betulah is married when she goes out with her hair covered. Similarly, the Rama 55:1 writes that some say that when the chatan covers his and his kallah’s head during the sheva brachot it is considered the chupah. Nitai Gavriel (Nesiun 13:3) writes that the Ashkenazic minhag nowadays is to do the bedekin before the chupa. [http://www.chabad.org/library/article_cdo/aid/313719/jewish/The-Veiling-Ceremony-Bedeken.htm see The Veiling Ceremony: Bedeken] on Chabad.org for more</ref> Sephardim don’t have this minhag.<ref> Yalkut Yosef (Sovah Semachot 6:2)</ref>		# The Ashkenazic custom is to have a bedekin before the chupah because according to some it is considered the marriage.<ref>The Darkei Moshe 66:1 quotes Tosfot Yoma 13b s.v. lechada as holding that a betulah is married when she goes out with her hair covered. Similarly, the Rama 55:1 writes that some say that when the chatan covers his and his kallah’s head during the sheva brachot it is considered the chupah. Nitai Gavriel (Nesiun 13:3) writes that the Ashkenazic minhag nowadays is to do the bedekin before the chupa. [http://www.chabad.org/library/article_cdo/aid/313719/jewish/The-Veiling-Ceremony-Bedeken.htm see The Veiling Ceremony: Bedeken] on Chabad.org for more</ref> Sephardim don’t have this minhag.<ref> Yalkut Yosef (Sovah Semachot 6:2)</ref>
	# When the Chatan does the bedekin the rabbi and parents bless the kallah "אחותנו את היי לאלפי רבבה." Some say:<blockquote>אֲחֹתֵנוּ אַתְּ הֲיִי לְאַלְפֵי רְבָבָה ישמך אלקים כשרה רבקה רחל ולאה יְבָרֶכְךָ ה' וְיִשְׁמְרֶךָ. יָאֵר ה' פָּנָיו אֵלֶיךָ וִיחֻנֶּךָּ. יִשָּׂא ה' פָּנָיו אֵלֶיךָ וְיָשֵׂם לְךָ שָׁלוֹם.<ref>RCA Madrich p. 86</ref></blockquote>		# When the Chatan does the bedekin the rabbi and parents bless the kallah "אחותנו את היי לאלפי רבבה."<ref>Shevach Hanesuin p. 37</ref> Some say:<blockquote>אֲחֹתֵנוּ אַתְּ הֲיִי לְאַלְפֵי רְבָבָה ישמך אלקים כשרה רבקה רחל ולאה יְבָרֶכְךָ ה' וְיִשְׁמְרֶךָ. יָאֵר ה' פָּנָיו אֵלֶיךָ וִיחֻנֶּךָּ. יִשָּׂא ה' פָּנָיו אֵלֶיךָ וְיָשֵׂם לְךָ שָׁלוֹם.<ref>RCA Madrich p. 86</ref></blockquote>

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YitzchakSultan1 at 14:05, 29 December 2024

2024-12-29T14:05:16Z

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	# The Ashkenazic custom is to have a bedekin before the chupah because according to some it is considered the marriage.<ref>The Darkei Moshe 66:1 quotes Tosfot Yoma 13b s.v. lechada as holding that a betulah is married when she goes out with her hair covered. Similarly, the Rama 55:1 writes that some say that when the chatan covers his and his kallah’s head during the sheva brachot it is considered the chupah. Nitai Gavriel (Nesiun 13:3) writes that the Ashkenazic minhag nowadays is to do the bedekin before the chupa. [http://www.chabad.org/library/article_cdo/aid/313719/jewish/The-Veiling-Ceremony-Bedeken.htm see The Veiling Ceremony: Bedeken] on Chabad.org for more</ref> Sephardim don’t have this minhag.<ref> Yalkut Yosef (Sovah Semachot 6:2)</ref>		# The Ashkenazic custom is to have a bedekin before the chupah because according to some it is considered the marriage.<ref>The Darkei Moshe 66:1 quotes Tosfot Yoma 13b s.v. lechada as holding that a betulah is married when she goes out with her hair covered. Similarly, the Rama 55:1 writes that some say that when the chatan covers his and his kallah’s head during the sheva brachot it is considered the chupah. Nitai Gavriel (Nesiun 13:3) writes that the Ashkenazic minhag nowadays is to do the bedekin before the chupa. [http://www.chabad.org/library/article_cdo/aid/313719/jewish/The-Veiling-Ceremony-Bedeken.htm see The Veiling Ceremony: Bedeken] on Chabad.org for more</ref> Sephardim don’t have this minhag.<ref> Yalkut Yosef (Sovah Semachot 6:2)</ref>
			# When the Chatan does the bedekin the rabbi and parents bless the kallah "אחותנו את היי לאלפי רבבה." Some say:<blockquote>אֲחֹתֵנוּ אַתְּ הֲיִי לְאַלְפֵי רְבָבָה ישמך אלקים כשרה רבקה רחל ולאה יְבָרֶכְךָ ה' וְיִשְׁמְרֶךָ. יָאֵר ה' פָּנָיו אֵלֶיךָ וִיחֻנֶּךָּ. יִשָּׂא ה' פָּנָיו אֵלֶיךָ וְיָשֵׂם לְךָ שָׁלוֹם.<ref>RCA Madrich p. 86</ref></blockquote>

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# The Ashkenazic custom is to have a bedekin before the chupah because according to some it is considered the marriage.<ref>The Darkei Moshe 66:1 quotes Tosfot Yoma 13b s.v. lechada as holding that a betulah is married when she goes out with her hair covered. Similarly, the Rama 55:1 writes that some say that when the chatan covers his and his kallah’s head during the sheva brachot it is considered the chupah. Nitai Gavriel (Nesiun 13:3) writes that the Ashkenazic minhag nowadays is to do the bedekin before the chupa. [http://www.chabad.org/library/article_cdo/aid/313719/jewish/The-Veiling-Ceremony-Bedeken.htm see The Veiling Ceremony: Bedeken] on Chabad.org for more</ref> Sephardim don’t have this minhag.<ref> Yalkut Yosef (Sovah Semachot 6:2)</ref>

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