Nine Days - Revision history

YitzchakSultan1: /* Laundry */

2025-07-25T02:59:53Z

Laundry

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	#Many poskim hold that it is permitted to wear freshly laundered undergarments which are designed to absorb sweat such as undershirts and socks during the nine days.<ref>Rav Shlomo Zalman Auerbach (Halichot Shlomo 14:12), Rav Efraim Greenblatt (Rivevot Efraim 3:340), Rav Shmuel Kamenetsky (Kovetz Halachot 11:23), and Rav Ovadia Yosef ([http://halachayomit.co.il/EnglishDisplayRead.asp?readID=2087 Rav Ovadia Yosef on halachayomit.co.il] quoting Chazon Ovadia pg. 229). Rav Ovadia holds that it is better if possible to prepare non-laundered clothing from before.</ref> Others are strict.<ref>[http://www.dailyhalacha.com/displayRead.asp?readID=3319 Rabbi Eli Mansour] in the name of the Ben Ish Chai, Chacham Bentzion Abba Shaul (Or Letzion 3, p. 248) and the English Yalkut Yosef (pg. 207). Dirshu 551:40 quotes Minchat Yitzchak 10:44 who is also strict. The Three Weeks (p. 84) writes that if possible a person should be strict not to wear laundered undergarments.</ref> According to this strict view, there is a dispute if it is permitted to throw the freshly laundered undergarments on the floor so that they get a little dirty before wearing them.<ref>Dirshu 551:40 quotes Rav Nissim Karelitz as permitting this and Rav Chaim Kanievsky and Or Letzion forbidding it.</ref>		#Many poskim hold that it is permitted to wear freshly laundered undergarments which are designed to absorb sweat such as undershirts and socks during the nine days.<ref>Rav Shlomo Zalman Auerbach (Halichot Shlomo 14:12), Rav Efraim Greenblatt (Rivevot Efraim 3:340), Rav Shmuel Kamenetsky (Kovetz Halachot 11:23), and Rav Ovadia Yosef ([http://halachayomit.co.il/EnglishDisplayRead.asp?readID=2087 Rav Ovadia Yosef on halachayomit.co.il] quoting Chazon Ovadia pg. 229). Rav Ovadia holds that it is better if possible to prepare non-laundered clothing from before.</ref> Others are strict.<ref>[http://www.dailyhalacha.com/displayRead.asp?readID=3319 Rabbi Eli Mansour] in the name of the Ben Ish Chai, Chacham Bentzion Abba Shaul (Or Letzion 3, p. 248) and the English Yalkut Yosef (pg. 207). Dirshu 551:40 quotes Minchat Yitzchak 10:44 who is also strict. The Three Weeks (p. 84) writes that if possible a person should be strict not to wear laundered undergarments.</ref> According to this strict view, there is a dispute if it is permitted to throw the freshly laundered undergarments on the floor so that they get a little dirty before wearing them.<ref>Dirshu 551:40 quotes Rav Nissim Karelitz as permitting this and Rav Chaim Kanievsky and Or Letzion forbidding it.</ref>
	#Many poskim permit even laundering undergarments during the nine days if they are very dirty and he doesn't have others to wear.<ref>Dirshu 551:40 quoting Or Letzion 3:27:1. Similarly, Shoneh Halachot (Torat Hamoadim 551 fnt. 62 p. 135) quotes that Rav Chaim Kanievsky allowed laundering undergarments that were so sweaty that they couldn't be worn otherwise. Rav Shlomo Miller (Shoshanat Yisrael 4:25) allowed laundering undergarments during the nine days if he doesn't have enough. It is preferable to launder it with just water. However, Rav Tukachinsky (Halichot Ben Hametzarim p. 46 5:51) disagreed.</ref>		#Many poskim permit even laundering undergarments during the nine days if they are very dirty and he doesn't have others to wear.<ref>Dirshu 551:40 quoting Or Letzion 3:27:1. Similarly, Shoneh Halachot (Torat Hamoadim 551 fnt. 62 p. 135) quotes that Rav Chaim Kanievsky allowed laundering undergarments that were so sweaty that they couldn't be worn otherwise. Rav Shlomo Miller (Shoshanat Yisrael 4:25) allowed laundering undergarments during the nine days if he doesn't have enough. It is preferable to launder it with just water. However, Rav Tukachinsky (Halichot Ben Hametzarim p. 46 5:51) disagreed.</ref>

			===Ironing and Dry Cleaning===

			# It is forbidden to iron clothing during the nine days according to Ashkenazim.<ref>Shulchan Aruch O.C. 551:3 forbids גיהוץ (lit. ironing; transl. giyhutz) which the Aruch translates as ironing with a smooth stone. Hilchot Chag Bchag (Ben Hametzarim p. 45) writes that ironing a crease is giyhutz and forbidden during the nine days.</ref>
			# Dry cleaning is included in the prohibition of laundry.<ref>Hilchot Chag Bchag (Ben Hametzarim p. 45), Dirshu 551:38 quoting Igrot Moshe 3:79 and Or Letzion 3:27:1</ref>

	===Doing it for Afterwards, Asking a Non-Jew===		===Doing it for Afterwards, Asking a Non-Jew===

YitzchakSultan1: /* Towel and Sheets */

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Towel and Sheets

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	===Towel and Sheets===		===Towel and Sheets===
	#A fresh towel may be used during the Nine Days if the towel one was using became soiled <ref>Kitzur Hilchos Bein Hametzarim p. 10:9. Yalkut Yosef (Mdinei Yemey Tisha B'av n. 13) writes that Sephardim shouldn't launder towels or hand towels during the week of Tisha B'av. </ref>		#A fresh towel may be used during the Nine Days if the towel one was using became soiled.<ref>Kitzur Hilchos Bein Hametzarim p. 10:9. Yalkut Yosef (Mdinei Yemey Tisha B'av n. 13) writes that Sephardim shouldn't launder towels or hand towels during the week of Tisha B'av. </ref>
	#Bed sheets may not be changed during the Nine Days <ref>Mishna Berura 551:33 </ref> unless they are soiled. However, if a guest arrives during the Nine Days then one may place clean sheets on the bed <ref>Shu”t Tzitz Eliezer 13:61</ref>		#Bed sheets may not be changed during the Nine Days <ref>Mishna Berura 551:33 </ref> unless they are soiled. However, if a guest arrives during the Nine Days then one may place clean sheets on the bed.<ref>Shu”t Tzitz Eliezer 13:61</ref>
	#In hospitals, it is permitted to clean the linens and clothing because this is done to keep clean for health reasons and not for pleasure. In hotels and motels they can change the linens for new guests because people are disgusted by using what others have already used. <ref>Tzitz Eliezer 13:61 </ref>		#In hospitals, it is permitted to clean the linens and clothing because this is done to keep clean for health reasons and not for pleasure. In hotels and motels they can change the linens for new guests because people are disgusted by using what others have already used.<ref>Tzitz Eliezer 13:61 </ref>
	#A clean tablecloth can be used on Shabbos during the Nine Days <ref>Taz OC 551:4</ref>		#A clean tablecloth can be used on Shabbos during the Nine Days.<ref>Taz OC 551:4</ref>
	#A fresh handkerchief may be used only if the old one is dirty and unusable <ref>Shu”t Rivevos Ephraim OC 2:555</ref>		#A fresh handkerchief may be used only if the old one is dirty and unusable.<ref>Shu”t Rivevos Ephraim OC 2:555</ref>
	===Wearing Shabbat Clothing===		===Wearing Shabbat Clothing===
	# The minhag is not to wear Shabbat clothing during the nine days.<Ref>Rama 551:1</ref>		# The minhag is not to wear Shabbat clothing during the nine days.<Ref>Rama 551:1</ref>

YitzchakSultan1: /* When Does the Minhag Apply? */

2025-07-24T21:58:59Z

When Does the Minhag Apply?

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	==Eating Meat and Drinking Wine==		==Eating Meat and Drinking Wine==
	===When Does the Minhag Apply?===		===When Does the Minhag Apply?===
	#The Ashkenazic and Sephardic custom is to refrain from meat, poultry, and wine during the [[nine days]].<ref>The Gemara Baba Batra 60b quotes the opinion of Rabbi Yishmael Ben Elisha that after the destruction of the Beit HaMikdash, it would have been appropriate for the rabbis to ban eating meat and drinking wine in order to properly mourn. However, since most of the congregation would not be able to abide by this, the rabbis never made it. Biur HaGra OC 551:9 writes that this is the source for refraining from eating meat and drinking wine prior to Tisha B'Av, that although it is impossible to ban eating meat and drinking wine throughout the year, it is possible to refrain from meat and wine for a short period of time. The Gemara in Taanit 30a discuss the prohibition of eating meat during the [[seudat hamafseket]] prior to [[tisha b'av]]. Rambam Hilchot Taaniot 5:6 says that the custom is to extend the prohibition beyond that meal. He says that some don't eat meat during the week of tisha b'av, and some don't eat from [[Rosh Chodesh]] av and onward. Shulchan Aruch Orach Chaim 551:9 writes that there are three customs about not eating meat and drinking wine; some refrain only for the week on [[Tisha BeAv]], some refrain for the [[nine days]] (from [[Rosh Chodesh]] Av), some refrain for the whole three weeks.</ref> Ashkenazim include [[Rosh Chodesh]] in this prohibition,<ref>Mishna Brurah 551:58 writes that the Ashkenazic custom is not to eat meat or drink wine for the [[nine days]] including [[Rosh Chodesh]] Av but excluding [[Shabbat]] (Mishna Brurah 551:59). The Three Weeks (by Rabbi Simcha Bunim Cohen p. 50) and [http://www.torah.org/advanced/weekly-halacha/5762/devarim.html Weekly Halacha by Rabbi Neustadt] agree.</ref> while Sephardim are lenient regarding the day of [[Rosh Chodesh]] itself and some Sephardim are strict. <ref>Sh"t Yechave Daat 1:41, Moed Likol Chai 9:15, [http://www.doresh-tzion.co.il/QAShowAnswer.aspx?qaid=97492 Rav Bentzion Mussafi], and Kaf Hachayim 551:125 write that the Sephardic custom is to refrain from eating meat and wine during the [[nine days]], but on [[Rosh Chodesh]] the minhag is to be lenient. However, they add that some are strict. See also Chazon Ovadyah (Arba Taniyot pg 169), [http://www.dailyhalacha.com/displayRead.asp?readID=2184 Rabbi Mansour on dailyhalacha.com], and Halachot and History of The [[Three Weeks]] (by Rabbi Shlomo Churba, pg 37) who all write that the Sephardic custom is not to eat meat, poultry or wine in the [[nine days]]. </ref>		#The Ashkenazic and Sephardic custom is to refrain from meat, poultry, and wine during the [[nine days]].<ref>The Gemara Baba Batra 60b quotes the opinion of Rabbi Yishmael Ben Elisha that after the destruction of the Beit HaMikdash, it would have been appropriate for the rabbis to ban eating meat and drinking wine in order to properly mourn. However, since most of the congregation would not be able to abide by this, the rabbis never made it. Biur HaGra OC 551:9 writes that this is the source for refraining from eating meat and drinking wine prior to Tisha B'Av, that although it is impossible to ban eating meat and drinking wine throughout the year, it is possible to refrain from meat and wine for a short period of time. The Gemara in Taanit 30a discuss the prohibition of eating meat during the [[seudat hamafseket]] prior to [[tisha b'av]]. Rambam Hilchot Taaniot 5:6 says that the custom is to extend the prohibition beyond that meal. He says that some don't eat meat during the week of tisha b'av, and some don't eat from [[Rosh Chodesh]] av and onward. Shulchan Aruch Orach Chaim 551:9 writes that there are three customs about not eating meat and drinking wine; some refrain only for the week on [[Tisha BeAv]], some refrain for the [[nine days]] (from [[Rosh Chodesh]] Av), some refrain for the whole three weeks.</ref> Ashkenazim include [[Rosh Chodesh]] in this prohibition,<ref>Mishna Brurah 551:58 writes that the Ashkenazic custom is not to eat meat or drink wine for the [[nine days]] including [[Rosh Chodesh]] Av but excluding [[Shabbat]] (Mishna Brurah 551:59). The Three Weeks (by Rabbi Simcha Bunim Cohen p. 50) and [http://www.torah.org/advanced/weekly-halacha/5762/devarim.html Weekly Halacha by Rabbi Neustadt] agree.</ref> while Sephardim are lenient regarding the day of [[Rosh Chodesh]] itself and some Sephardim are strict.<ref>Chida ([https://www.hebrewbooks.org/pdfpager.aspx?req=52606&pgnum=42 Moreh Be'etzbah 233]), Sh"t Yechave Daat 1:41, Moed Likol Chai 9:15, [http://www.doresh-tzion.co.il/QAShowAnswer.aspx?qaid=97492 Rav Bentzion Mussafi], and Kaf Hachayim 551:125 write that the Sephardic custom is to refrain from eating meat and wine during the [[nine days]], but on [[Rosh Chodesh]] the minhag is to be lenient. However, they add that some are strict. See also Chazon Ovadyah (Arba Taniyot pg 169), [http://www.dailyhalacha.com/displayRead.asp?readID=2184 Rabbi Mansour on dailyhalacha.com], and Halachot and History of The [[Three Weeks]] (by Rabbi Shlomo Churba, pg 37) who all write that the Sephardic custom is not to eat meat, poultry or wine in the [[nine days]]. </ref>

	===Cooked with Meat or Meat Equipment===		===Cooked with Meat or Meat Equipment===

Ezcohen: /* Trips and Pleasurable activities */

2024-08-09T01:27:20Z

Trips and Pleasurable activities

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	==Trips and Pleasurable activities==		==Trips and Pleasurable activities==

	#~~Some say~~ that one shouldn't take a pleasure trip during the [[nine days]], ~~while others disagree~~. <ref>Rivevot Efraim 1:374 quotes one gadol who said that it was forbidden to take pleasurable trips during the [[nine days]]. Afterwards, he writes that this is hard to understand and isn't included in the prohibition of binyan shel simcha.</ref>		#While there is general agreement that one shouldn't take a pleasure trip during the [[nine days]], some say that even though it is inappropriate, strictly speaking it is permitted. <ref>Rivevot Efraim 1:374 quotes one gadol who said that it was forbidden to take pleasurable trips during the [[nine days]]. Afterwards, he writes that this is hard to understand and isn't included in the prohibition of binyan shel simcha. However, he concludes that it is good to be stringent since perhaps this is not the proper time for tiyulim.</ref>
	#It is permitted to have one's grass cut during the [[nine days]], however, one should refrain from doing so on [[Tisha BeAv]].<ref>Rivevot Efraim 1:374 quoting Rav Moshe Bick, Rav Chaim Pinchas Scheinberg, and Rav Munk writes that it is permitted to cut one's grass during the [[nine days]], but on [[Tisha BeAv]] itself one should be strict not to.</ref>		#It is permitted to have one's grass cut during the [[nine days]], however, one should refrain from doing so on [[Tisha BeAv]].<ref>Rivevot Efraim 1:374 quoting Rav Moshe Bick, Rav Chaim Pinchas Scheinberg, and Rav Munk writes that it is permitted to cut one's grass during the [[nine days]], but on [[Tisha BeAv]] itself one should be strict not to.</ref>

YitzchakSultan1: /* Children or Someone Sick */

2024-08-06T02:18:49Z

Children or Someone Sick

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	* [https://www.yutorah.org/lectures/lecture.cfm/890440/rabbi-hershel-schachter/are-children-obligated-in-observances-that-commemorate-the-destruction-of-the-beis-hamikdash-/ Rav Hershel Schachter] explains that although normally a child is not obligated to observe practices of a mourner, even when he reaches the age of chinuch, the practice of not eating meat is not a function of mourning (as a mourner during shiva is allowed to eat meat and drink wine.) Instead, it is part of the obligation to mourn and remember the Beit Hamikdash. (See Gemara Baba Batra 60b). Children do not have an obligation to observe the laws of mourning, but they do have an obligation to remember the beit hamidkash. Therefore they refrain from eating meat and drinking wine during the nine days once they have reached the age of chinuch.		* [https://www.yutorah.org/lectures/lecture.cfm/890440/rabbi-hershel-schachter/are-children-obligated-in-observances-that-commemorate-the-destruction-of-the-beis-hamikdash-/ Rav Hershel Schachter] explains that although normally a child is not obligated to observe practices of a mourner, even when he reaches the age of chinuch, the practice of not eating meat is not a function of mourning (as a mourner during shiva is allowed to eat meat and drink wine.) Instead, it is part of the obligation to mourn and remember the Beit Hamikdash. (See Gemara Baba Batra 60b). Children do not have an obligation to observe the laws of mourning, but they do have an obligation to remember the beit hamidkash. Therefore they refrain from eating meat and drinking wine during the nine days once they have reached the age of chinuch.
	* Rabbi Eider (The Halachos Of The Three Weeks p. 7) writes that generally the minhag not to eat meat even applies to children. But if it is hard to feed a child dairy and he is used to eating meat every day he can continue to eat meat in the Nine Days.		* Rabbi Eider (The Halachos Of The Three Weeks p. 7) writes that generally the minhag not to eat meat even applies to children. But if it is hard to feed a child dairy and he is used to eating meat every day he can continue to eat meat in the Nine Days.
	* Aruch Hashulchan 551:26 as well says there is room to be lenient, especially in a case where it is a weak child who can gain a lot from eating the meat.</ref> Sepharadim however, allow it.<Ref>Chazon Ovadia Arba Taaniyot pg. 190 allows feeding meat to children until the year before Bar/Bat Mitzva. Rabbi David Yosef in torat hamoadim Siman 5 page 190 agrees. Ohr Letzion 3: pg. 245 3:26:6 allows it until Bar Mitzva. See Yalkut Yosef Chinuch p. 279 where he says that for a child who is even a little bit weak can eat meat during the nine days. He cites Yabia Omer YD 3:3 and 4:4. </ref>		* Aruch Hashulchan 551:26 as well says there is room to be lenient, especially in a case where it is a weak child who can gain a lot from eating the meat.</ref> Sepharadim however, allow it.<Ref>Chazon Ovadia Arba Taaniyot pg. 190 allows feeding meat to children until the year before Bar/Bat Mitzva. Rabbi David Yosef in torat hamoadim Siman 5 page 190 agrees. Ohr Letzion 3: pg. 245 3:26:6 allows it until Bar Mitzva. See Yalkut Yosef Chinuch p. 279 where he says that for a child who is even a little bit weak can eat meat during the nine days. He cites Yabia Omer YD 3:3 and 4:4. </ref> A baby less than 3 years old can have meat during the nine days.<ref>The Three Weeks p. 52</ref>
	# It is permitted to give children meat for their Firday night Shabbat meal even if it is earlier than plag mincha.<ref>[https://www.torahanytime.com/#/lectures?a=155681 Rav Shmuel Fuerst (Three Weeks and Nine Days, min 29-30)] quoting Rav Moshe Feinstein</ref>		# It is permitted to give children meat for their Firday night Shabbat meal even if it is earlier than plag mincha.<ref>[https://www.torahanytime.com/#/lectures?a=155681 Rav Shmuel Fuerst (Three Weeks and Nine Days, min 29-30)] quoting Rav Moshe Feinstein</ref>

YitzchakSultan1: /* Undergarments */

2024-08-05T01:21:06Z

Undergarments

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	===Undergarments===		===Undergarments===
	#Many poskim hold that it is permitted to wear freshly laundered undergarments which are designed to absorb sweat such as undershirts and socks during the nine days.<ref>Rav Shlomo Zalman Auerbach (Halichot Shlomo 14:12), Rav Efraim Greenblatt (Rivevot Efraim 3:340), Rav Shmuel Kamenetsky (Kovetz Halachot 11:23), and Rav Ovadia Yosef ([http://halachayomit.co.il/EnglishDisplayRead.asp?readID=2087 Rav Ovadia Yosef on halachayomit.co.il] quoting Chazon Ovadia pg. 229). Rav Ovadia holds that it is better if possible to prepare non-laundered clothing from before.</ref> Others are strict.<ref>[http://www.dailyhalacha.com/displayRead.asp?readID=3319 Rabbi Eli Mansour] in the name of the Ben Ish Chai, Chacham Bentzion Abba Shaul (Or Letzion 3, p. 248) and the English Yalkut Yosef (pg. 207). Dirshu 551:40 quotes Minchat Yitzchak 10:44 who is also strict.</ref> According to this strict view, there is a dispute if it is permitted to throw the freshly laundered undergarments on the floor so that they get a little dirty before wearing them.<ref>Dirshu 551:40 quotes Rav Nissim Karelitz as permitting this and Rav Chaim Kanievsky and Or Letzion forbidding it.</ref>		#Many poskim hold that it is permitted to wear freshly laundered undergarments which are designed to absorb sweat such as undershirts and socks during the nine days.<ref>Rav Shlomo Zalman Auerbach (Halichot Shlomo 14:12), Rav Efraim Greenblatt (Rivevot Efraim 3:340), Rav Shmuel Kamenetsky (Kovetz Halachot 11:23), and Rav Ovadia Yosef ([http://halachayomit.co.il/EnglishDisplayRead.asp?readID=2087 Rav Ovadia Yosef on halachayomit.co.il] quoting Chazon Ovadia pg. 229). Rav Ovadia holds that it is better if possible to prepare non-laundered clothing from before.</ref> Others are strict.<ref>[http://www.dailyhalacha.com/displayRead.asp?readID=3319 Rabbi Eli Mansour] in the name of the Ben Ish Chai, Chacham Bentzion Abba Shaul (Or Letzion 3, p. 248) and the English Yalkut Yosef (pg. 207). Dirshu 551:40 quotes Minchat Yitzchak 10:44 who is also strict. The Three Weeks (p. 84) writes that if possible a person should be strict not to wear laundered undergarments.</ref> According to this strict view, there is a dispute if it is permitted to throw the freshly laundered undergarments on the floor so that they get a little dirty before wearing them.<ref>Dirshu 551:40 quotes Rav Nissim Karelitz as permitting this and Rav Chaim Kanievsky and Or Letzion forbidding it.</ref>
	#Many poskim permit even laundering undergarments during the nine days if they are very dirty and he doesn't have others to wear.<ref>Dirshu 551:40 quoting Or Letzion 3:27:1. Similarly, Shoneh Halachot (Torat Hamoadim 551 fnt. 62 p. 135) quotes that Rav Chaim Kanievsky allowed laundering undergarments that were so sweaty that they couldn't be worn otherwise. Rav Shlomo Miller (Shoshanat Yisrael 4:25) allowed laundering undergarments during the nine days if he doesn't have enough. It is preferable to launder it with just water. However, Rav Tukachinsky (Halichot Ben Hametzarim p. 46 5:51) disagreed.</ref>		#Many poskim permit even laundering undergarments during the nine days if they are very dirty and he doesn't have others to wear.<ref>Dirshu 551:40 quoting Or Letzion 3:27:1. Similarly, Shoneh Halachot (Torat Hamoadim 551 fnt. 62 p. 135) quotes that Rav Chaim Kanievsky allowed laundering undergarments that were so sweaty that they couldn't be worn otherwise. Rav Shlomo Miller (Shoshanat Yisrael 4:25) allowed laundering undergarments during the nine days if he doesn't have enough. It is preferable to launder it with just water. However, Rav Tukachinsky (Halichot Ben Hametzarim p. 46 5:51) disagreed.</ref>

YitzchakSultan1: /* When Does the Minhag Apply? */

2024-08-05T01:20:15Z

When Does the Minhag Apply?

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	==Eating Meat and Drinking Wine==		==Eating Meat and Drinking Wine==
	===When Does the Minhag Apply?===		===When Does the Minhag Apply?===
	#The Ashkenazic and Sephardic custom is to refrain from meat, poultry, and wine during the [[nine days]].<ref>The Gemara Baba Batra 60b quotes the opinion of Rabbi Yishmael Ben Elisha that after the destruction of the Beit HaMikdash, it would have been appropriate for the rabbis to ban eating meat and drinking wine in order to properly mourn. However, since most of the congregation would not be able to abide by this, the rabbis never made it. Biur HaGra OC 551:9 writes that this is the source for refraining from eating meat and drinking wine prior to Tisha B'Av, that although it is impossible to ban eating meat and drinking wine throughout the year, it is possible to refrain from meat and wine for a short period of time. The Gemara in Taanit 30a discuss the prohibition of eating meat during the [[seudat hamafseket]] prior to [[tisha b'av]]. Rambam Hilchot Taaniot 5:6 says that the custom is to extend the prohibition beyond that meal. He says that some don't eat meat during the week of tisha b'av, and some don't eat from [[Rosh Chodesh]] av and onward. Shulchan Aruch Orach Chaim 551:9 writes that there are three customs about not eating meat and drinking wine; some refrain only for the week on [[Tisha BeAv]], some refrain for the [[nine days]] (from [[Rosh Chodesh]] Av), some refrain for the whole three weeks.</ref> Ashkenazim include [[Rosh Chodesh]] in this prohibition,<ref>Mishna Brurah 551:58 writes that the Ashkenazic custom is not to eat meat or drink wine for the [[nine days]] including [[Rosh Chodesh]] Av but excluding [[Shabbat]] (Mishna Brurah 551:59). ~~This is also written in the~~ [http://www.torah.org/advanced/weekly-halacha/5762/devarim.html Weekly Halacha by Rabbi Neustadt].</ref> while Sephardim are lenient regarding the day of [[Rosh Chodesh]] itself and some Sephardim are strict. <ref>Sh"t Yechave Daat 1:41, Moed Likol Chai 9:15, [http://www.doresh-tzion.co.il/QAShowAnswer.aspx?qaid=97492 Rav Bentzion Mussafi], and Kaf Hachayim 551:125 write that the Sephardic custom is to refrain from eating meat and wine during the [[nine days]], but on [[Rosh Chodesh]] the minhag is to be lenient. However, they add that some are strict. See also Chazon Ovadyah (Arba Taniyot pg 169), [http://www.dailyhalacha.com/displayRead.asp?readID=2184 Rabbi Mansour on dailyhalacha.com], and Halachot and History of The [[Three Weeks]] (by Rabbi Shlomo Churba, pg 37) who all write that the Sephardic custom is not to eat meat, poultry or wine in the [[nine days]]. </ref>		#The Ashkenazic and Sephardic custom is to refrain from meat, poultry, and wine during the [[nine days]].<ref>The Gemara Baba Batra 60b quotes the opinion of Rabbi Yishmael Ben Elisha that after the destruction of the Beit HaMikdash, it would have been appropriate for the rabbis to ban eating meat and drinking wine in order to properly mourn. However, since most of the congregation would not be able to abide by this, the rabbis never made it. Biur HaGra OC 551:9 writes that this is the source for refraining from eating meat and drinking wine prior to Tisha B'Av, that although it is impossible to ban eating meat and drinking wine throughout the year, it is possible to refrain from meat and wine for a short period of time. The Gemara in Taanit 30a discuss the prohibition of eating meat during the [[seudat hamafseket]] prior to [[tisha b'av]]. Rambam Hilchot Taaniot 5:6 says that the custom is to extend the prohibition beyond that meal. He says that some don't eat meat during the week of tisha b'av, and some don't eat from [[Rosh Chodesh]] av and onward. Shulchan Aruch Orach Chaim 551:9 writes that there are three customs about not eating meat and drinking wine; some refrain only for the week on [[Tisha BeAv]], some refrain for the [[nine days]] (from [[Rosh Chodesh]] Av), some refrain for the whole three weeks.</ref> Ashkenazim include [[Rosh Chodesh]] in this prohibition,<ref>Mishna Brurah 551:58 writes that the Ashkenazic custom is not to eat meat or drink wine for the [[nine days]] including [[Rosh Chodesh]] Av but excluding [[Shabbat]] (Mishna Brurah 551:59). The Three Weeks (by Rabbi Simcha Bunim Cohen p. 50) and [http://www.torah.org/advanced/weekly-halacha/5762/devarim.html Weekly Halacha by Rabbi Neustadt] agree.</ref> while Sephardim are lenient regarding the day of [[Rosh Chodesh]] itself and some Sephardim are strict. <ref>Sh"t Yechave Daat 1:41, Moed Likol Chai 9:15, [http://www.doresh-tzion.co.il/QAShowAnswer.aspx?qaid=97492 Rav Bentzion Mussafi], and Kaf Hachayim 551:125 write that the Sephardic custom is to refrain from eating meat and wine during the [[nine days]], but on [[Rosh Chodesh]] the minhag is to be lenient. However, they add that some are strict. See also Chazon Ovadyah (Arba Taniyot pg 169), [http://www.dailyhalacha.com/displayRead.asp?readID=2184 Rabbi Mansour on dailyhalacha.com], and Halachot and History of The [[Three Weeks]] (by Rabbi Shlomo Churba, pg 37) who all write that the Sephardic custom is not to eat meat, poultry or wine in the [[nine days]]. </ref>

	===Cooked with Meat or Meat Equipment===		===Cooked with Meat or Meat Equipment===

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Buying and Gifting

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	#One shouldn't buy important items such as furniture or appliances during the [[nine days]] since it brings a person a lot of pleasure.<ref>Guidelines of the [[Three Weeks]] by Rabbi Elozor Barclay (p. 47) citing Igrot Moshe 3:80 and MeBeyt Levi p. 8 n. 4</ref>		#One shouldn't buy important items such as furniture or appliances during the [[nine days]] since it brings a person a lot of pleasure.<ref>Guidelines of the [[Three Weeks]] by Rabbi Elozor Barclay (p. 47) citing Igrot Moshe 3:80 and MeBeyt Levi p. 8 n. 4</ref>
	#Some Ashkenazim have the practice not to give gifts during the nine days unless there is a need<ref>Nitai Gavriel Ben Hametzarim 1:18:4</ref> but for a mitzvah such as for a bar mitzvah boy it is permitted.<ref>Nitai Gavriel Ben Hametzarim 1:18:6</ref>		#Some Ashkenazim have the practice not to give gifts during the nine days unless there is a need<ref>Nitai Gavriel Ben Hametzarim 1:18:4</ref> but for a mitzvah such as for a bar mitzvah boy it is permitted.<ref>Nitai Gavriel Ben Hametzarim 1:18:6</ref>
			#It is permitted to buy new sefarim during the nine days since we don't make a shehechiyanu upon new sefarim and also it is necessary for a mitzvah.<ref>Halichot Emet 13:16 quoting Shalmei Moed</ref>

	==Taking Haircuts and Shaving==		==Taking Haircuts and Shaving==

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Undergarments

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	===Undergarments===		===Undergarments===
	#~~Some say~~ that undergarments which are designed to absorb sweat ~~may be worn freshly-laundered~~.<ref>[http://halachayomit.co.il/EnglishDisplayRead.asp?readID=2087 Rav Ovadia Yosef on halachayomit.co.il] ~~based on~~ Chazon Ovadia pg. 229. ~~see there where he says~~ that it is better if possible to prepare non-laundered clothing from before. </ref> Others are strict.<ref>[http://www.dailyhalacha.com/displayRead.asp?readID=3319 Rabbi Eli Mansour] in the name of the Ben Ish Chai, Chacham Bentzion Abba Shaul (Or Letzion 3, p. 248) and the English Yalkut Yosef (pg. 207)</ref>		#Many poskim hold that it is permitted to wear freshly laundered undergarments which are designed to absorb sweat such as undershirts and socks during the nine days.<ref>Rav Shlomo Zalman Auerbach (Halichot Shlomo 14:12), Rav Efraim Greenblatt (Rivevot Efraim 3:340), Rav Shmuel Kamenetsky (Kovetz Halachot 11:23), and Rav Ovadia Yosef ([http://halachayomit.co.il/EnglishDisplayRead.asp?readID=2087 Rav Ovadia Yosef on halachayomit.co.il] quoting Chazon Ovadia pg. 229). Rav Ovadia holds that it is better if possible to prepare non-laundered clothing from before.</ref> Others are strict.<ref>[http://www.dailyhalacha.com/displayRead.asp?readID=3319 Rabbi Eli Mansour] in the name of the Ben Ish Chai, Chacham Bentzion Abba Shaul (Or Letzion 3, p. 248) and the English Yalkut Yosef (pg. 207). Dirshu 551:40 quotes Minchat Yitzchak 10:44 who is also strict.</ref> According to this strict view, there is a dispute if it is permitted to throw the freshly laundered undergarments on the floor so that they get a little dirty before wearing them.<ref>Dirshu 551:40 quotes Rav Nissim Karelitz as permitting this and Rav Chaim Kanievsky and Or Letzion forbidding it.</ref>
			#Many poskim permit even laundering undergarments during the nine days if they are very dirty and he doesn't have others to wear.<ref>Dirshu 551:40 quoting Or Letzion 3:27:1. Similarly, Shoneh Halachot (Torat Hamoadim 551 fnt. 62 p. 135) quotes that Rav Chaim Kanievsky allowed laundering undergarments that were so sweaty that they couldn't be worn otherwise. Rav Shlomo Miller (Shoshanat Yisrael 4:25) allowed laundering undergarments during the nine days if he doesn't have enough. It is preferable to launder it with just water. However, Rav Tukachinsky (Halichot Ben Hametzarim p. 46 5:51) disagreed.</ref>

	===Doing it for Afterwards, Asking a Non-Jew===		===Doing it for Afterwards, Asking a Non-Jew===

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	The Nine Days is time ~~period~~ from the beginning of the month of Av until [[Tisha BeAv]] during which ~~there are~~ a number of practices of [[mourning]] ~~described below~~. While many of the laws below apply to the entire period of the Nine Days, some of them only apply during the week in which Tisha BaAv falls out (Shevua SheChal Bo). Additionally, these practices are very similar but generally more stringent than those that observed during the [[Three Weeks]].		The '''Nine Days''' is the period of time from the beginning of the month of Av until [[Tisha BeAv]], during which we observe a number of practices of [[mourning]] to commemorate the destruction of the Beit HaMikdash. While many of the laws below apply to the entire period of the Nine Days, some of them only apply during the week in which Tisha BaAv falls out (Shevua SheChal Bo). Additionally, these practices are very similar but generally more stringent than those that are observed during the [[Three Weeks]].
	==Business==		==Business==
	#From the beginning of the month of Av one should reduce one’s involvement in activities of happiness. <ref>Shulchan Aruch Orach Chaim 551:1</ref>		#From the beginning of the month of Av one should reduce one’s involvement in activities of happiness. <ref>Shulchan Aruch Orach Chaim 551:1</ref>
	#If one has a lawsuit with a non-Jew one should delay it until the [[month of Elul]] or at least until after [[Tisha BeAv]]. <ref>Shulchan Aruch Orach Chaim 551:1, Mishna Brurah 551:2</ref> Similarly, if one must have a surgery and it can be delayed, one should try to delay it until after [[Tisha BeAv]].<ref>Yalkut Yosef (Moadim p. 557)</ref>		#If one has a lawsuit with a non-Jew, one should delay it until the [[month of Elul]] or at least until after [[Tisha BeAv]]. <ref>Shulchan Aruch Orach Chaim 551:1, Mishna Brurah 551:2</ref> Similarly, if one must have a surgery and it can be delayed, one should try to delay it until after [[Tisha BeAv]].<ref>Yalkut Yosef (Moadim p. 557)</ref>
	#During the Nine Days, one should refrain from buying materials that are needed for a wedding.<ref>Mishna Brurah 551:11 </ref> Some authorities are lenient if the groom has not yet fulfilled the mitzvah of Pru Urevu and one will not be able to prepare for the wedding after [[Tisha BeAv]] because the wedding is right after [[Tisha BeAv]] or if there is a concern that the price of the wedding needs will become expensive after [[Tisha BeAv]].<ref>Yalkut Yosef (Moadim p. 558) </ref>		#During the Nine Days, one should refrain from buying materials that are needed for a wedding.<ref>Mishna Brurah 551:11 </ref> Some authorities are lenient if the groom has not yet fulfilled the mitzvah of Pru Urevu and one will not be able to prepare for the wedding after [[Tisha BeAv]], either because the wedding is right after [[Tisha BeAv]], or if there is a concern that the price of the wedding needs will become expensive after [[Tisha BeAv]].<ref>Yalkut Yosef (Moadim p. 558) </ref>
	#The minhag is to be lenient to allow one ~~not~~ to ~~reduce~~ one’s regular business during the [[Nine days]]. <ref>Mishna Brurah 551:11, Yalkut Yosef (Moadim p. 559) </ref>		#The minhag is to be lenient to allow one to conduct one’s regular business during the [[Nine days]]. <ref>Mishna Brurah 551:11, Yalkut Yosef (Moadim p. 559) </ref>
	#One may not build houses or buildings for business purposes during the Nine Days. However, one may hire a non-Jew before the Nine Days with a fixed sum for the entire project and then, he may work during the Nine Days and even on [[Tisha BeAv]]. <ref>Shulchan Aruch Orach Chaim 551:2, Mishna Brurah 511:12 </ref>		#One may not build houses or buildings for business purposes during the Nine Days. However, one may hire a non-Jew before the Nine Days with a fixed sum for the entire project and then, he may work during the Nine Days and even on [[Tisha BeAv]]. <ref>Shulchan Aruch Orach Chaim 551:2, Mishna Brurah 511:12 </ref>
	#If a wall is going to fall, even if there isn’t a concern of danger but only a concern of loss, one may restore it during the Nine Days. <ref>Shulchan Aruch Orach Chaim 551:2, Mishna Brurah 551:13 </ref>		#If a wall is going to fall, even if there isn’t a concern of danger but only a concern of loss, one may restore it during the Nine Days. <ref>Shulchan Aruch Orach Chaim 551:2, Mishna Brurah 551:13 </ref>
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	#One shouldn't buy important items such as furniture or appliances during the [[nine days]] since it brings a person a lot of pleasure.<ref>Guidelines of the [[Three Weeks]] by Rabbi Elozor Barclay (p. 47) citing Igrot Moshe 3:80 and MeBeyt Levi p. 8 n. 4</ref>		#One shouldn't buy important items such as furniture or appliances during the [[nine days]] since it brings a person a lot of pleasure.<ref>Guidelines of the [[Three Weeks]] by Rabbi Elozor Barclay (p. 47) citing Igrot Moshe 3:80 and MeBeyt Levi p. 8 n. 4</ref>
	#Some Ashkenazim have the practice not to give gifts during the nine days unless there is a need<ref>Nitai Gavriel Ben Hametzarim 1:18:4</ref> but for a mitzvah such as for a bar mitzvah boy it is permitted.<ref>Nitai Gavriel Ben Hametzarim 1:18:6</ref>		#Some Ashkenazim have the practice not to give gifts during the nine days unless there is a need<ref>Nitai Gavriel Ben Hametzarim 1:18:4</ref> but for a mitzvah such as for a bar mitzvah boy it is permitted.<ref>Nitai Gavriel Ben Hametzarim 1:18:6</ref>
	#It is permitted to buy new sefarim during the nine days since we don't make a shehechiyanu upon new sefarim and ~~also~~ it is necessary for a mitzvah.<ref>Halichot Emet 13:16 quoting Shalmei Moed</ref>		#It is permitted to buy new sefarim during the nine days since we don't make a shehechiyanu upon new sefarim, and it is necessary for the need of a mitzvah.<ref>Halichot Emet 13:16 quoting Shalmei Moed</ref>

	==Taking Haircuts and Shaving==		==Taking Haircuts and Shaving==

	#The Sephardic minhag is not to take a haircut during the week in which Tisha BaAv falls out (Shevua SheChal Bo)<ref>Shulchan Aruch Orach Chaim 551:3, Yalkut Yosef (Shevua SheChal Bo #1)</ref>, while the Ashkenazic minhag is not to take a haircut during the entire ~~the~~ [[Three Weeks]], which includes the Nine Days. <ref>Rama Orach Chaim 551:3 </ref>		#The Sephardic minhag is not to take a haircut during the week in which Tisha BaAv falls out (Shevua SheChal Bo)<ref>Shulchan Aruch Orach Chaim 551:3, Yalkut Yosef (Shevua SheChal Bo #1)</ref>, while the Ashkenazic minhag is not to take a haircut during the entire [[Three Weeks]], which includes the Nine Days. <ref>Rama Orach Chaim 551:3 </ref>
	#[[Shaving]] one’s beard or mustache is forbidden just like it is forbidden to take a haircut. <ref>Shulchan Aruch Orach Chaim 551:12 </ref> If one moustache interferes with one’s eating, one may cut it. <ref>Shulchan Aruch Orach Chaim 551:13 </ref>		#[[Shaving]] one’s beard or mustache is forbidden just like it is forbidden to take a haircut. <ref>Shulchan Aruch Orach Chaim 551:12 </ref> If one moustache interferes with one’s eating, one may cut it. <ref>Shulchan Aruch Orach Chaim 551:13 </ref>
	#It is permitted to comb and style one's hair during the [[Three Weeks]] and Nine Days and one doesn't have to worry that one will pull out hairs. <ref>Eliya Rabba 551:7, Shaare Teshuva 551:12, Mishna Brurah 551:20, Aruch Hashulchan 551:15, Sh"t Yechave Daat 6:35 </ref>		#It is permitted to comb and style one's hair during the [[Three Weeks]] and Nine Days and one doesn't have to worry that one will pull out hairs. <ref>Eliya Rabba 551:7, Shaare Teshuva 551:12, Mishna Brurah 551:20, Aruch Hashulchan 551:15, Sh"t Yechave Daat 6:35 </ref>
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	# A person may not build or plant things that are related to simcha during the nine days.<ref>Shulchan Aruch O.C. 551:2</ref>		# A person may not build or plant things that are related to simcha during the nine days.<ref>Shulchan Aruch O.C. 551:2</ref>
	# It is forbidden to plaster or paint one's house during the nine days.<ref>Shulchan Aruch Orach Chaim 551:2 forbids plastering or doing tizyur, decorating one's house. Regarding painting one's house, Mikrei Kodesh 4:5 quotes the poskim who forbid this including Yalkut Yosef Moadim p. 559, Torat Hamoadim 5:19, and Kovetz Mbet Levi Av 5758 p. 23. Though he also quotes Rav Mordechai Eliyahu as originally having permitted painting a plain color but later he retracted.</ref>		# It is forbidden to plaster or paint one's house during the nine days.<ref>Shulchan Aruch Orach Chaim 551:2 forbids plastering or doing tizyur, decorating one's house. Regarding painting one's house, Mikrei Kodesh 4:5 quotes the poskim who forbid this including Yalkut Yosef Moadim p. 559, Torat Hamoadim 5:19, and Kovetz Mbet Levi Av 5758 p. 23. Though he also quotes Rav Mordechai Eliyahu as originally having permitted painting a plain color but later he retracted.</ref>
	# It is a dispute if it is permitted to wallpaper one's walls during the nine days.<ref>Mikrei Kodesh 4:5. See Igrot Moshe 3:82.</ref>		# It is a dispute if it is permitted to put wallpaper on one's walls during the nine days.<ref>Mikrei Kodesh 4:5. See Igrot Moshe 3:82.</ref>
	# It is permitted to fix up one's house, such as to fix a door or fill in a hole.<ref>Mikrei Kodesh 4:5 quoting Rav Mordechai Eliyahu</ref>		# It is permitted to fix up one's house, such as to fix a door or fill in a hole.<ref>Mikrei Kodesh 4:5 quoting Rav Mordechai Eliyahu</ref>
	# One may hire a contractor to make necessary repairs to his home during the three weeks. <ref>Piskei Teshuvot 551:8, even though construction for joy is not done as per Shulchan Aruch Orach Chaim 551:2, based on a gemara Yevamot 43a and Tosafot s.v. "milisa." </ref>		# One may hire a contractor to make necessary repairs to his home during the three weeks. <ref>Piskei Teshuvot 551:8, even though construction for joy is not done as per Shulchan Aruch Orach Chaim 551:2, based on a gemara Yevamot 43a and Tosafot s.v. "milisa." </ref>
	#A non-Jewish contractor is allowed to continue building a house during the three weeks and even on [[Tisha BeAv]] if he has already begun to build for a Jew <ref>Chazon Ovadia Taaniyot page 329. </ref>		#A non-Jewish contractor is allowed to continue building a house during the three weeks and even on [[Tisha BeAv]] if he has already begun to build for a Jew <ref>Chazon Ovadia Taaniyot page 329. </ref>
	#If ~~there is a danger such as that~~ a wall may collapse one is allowed to ~~rebuild~~ it even if this causes joy. <ref>Mishna Brurah 551:13 </ref>		#If a wall may collapse and cause monetary loss, one is allowed to build it even if this causes joy. <ref>Mishna Brurah 551:13 </ref>
	# ~~One~~ may move into a house during the nine days ~~if necessary~~.<Ref>Chazon Ovadia - Arba Taaniyot pg. 169 </ref>		# If necessary, one may move into a house during the nine days i.<Ref>Chazon Ovadia - Arba Taaniyot pg. 169 </ref>

	===For a Mitzva===		===For a Mitzva===
	# One is permitted to build, renovate, or paint for a mitzva ~~like~~ building a shul or yeshiva.<ref>Mishna Brurah 551:12, Kaf Hachayim 551:25. Aruch Hashulchan 551:7 says anything for the public is considered for a mitzva and is permissible. </ref>		# One is permitted to build, renovate, and paint for the sake of a mitzva, such as building a shul or yeshiva.<ref>Mishna Brurah 551:12, Kaf Hachayim 551:25. Aruch Hashulchan 551:7 says anything for the public is considered for a mitzva and is permissible. </ref>

	==Laundry==		==Laundry==